A See You later
I've anticipated this day for a while.
But it took me by surprise.
Grandma has been a major part of my 25 years of life.
We traveled together, spent hours together, cooked together
I even spent my senior year lunch periods at her house with my friends.
It's all so surreal, thinking that eventually, it would happen
And now it's come and passed.
I was able to be with my grandma as she left this life.
It was a spiritual experience and I'm glad it happened so peacefully.
She is free of pain, that awful pain that tortured her body for as long as I can remember.
I could hear moaning in pain from upstairs when she woke up bright and early til she went to bed that night. I don’t think that anyone can really fathom the pain that she was in.
One Sunday she was getting ready for church, she was in pain.
I knew she was in pain, she couldn’t see and could hardly hear the speakers.
Grandma I said, Just stay home. She replied, I can’t then, I’ll get in the habit of not going.”
It was a lesson for me as well as many others who saw her faithful endurance.
She can see those beautiful pansies that she loves and she can hear now.
I'm sad, but so happy that she can now have a good quality of life.
Her independence was cut down little by little and she lost these abilities.
She loved her independence it meant everything to her.
I've been able to reflect on memories she shared and what she taught me.
She didn't have an easy life, she worked hard.
She owned her own restaurants and took care of her 4 boys.
Even though they were grown up, she didn’t stop caring for them.
She would get them their favorite treat or make them breakfast every morning.
Her selfless service never stopped.
She was without a spouse most of her life, but didn't complain.
She taught me that plates of food need to have color
To put yellow food dye in pancake batter
To put others ahead of yourself.
She was always thinking- Oh I could get a treat for ____, oh I need to get this for ____, Oh they like ______I'll send them those.
Don't make her mad, because boy did she have a fiesty temper
If you didn’t come back when you said you would, she would retort with a smart aleck remark.
“Did you get lost on your way down here?”
I remember she would send me stickers, I loved getting mail from grandma.
She and I would walk across the street, where she introduced me to Italian cream sodas with Whipped cream and sprinkles on top.
For my tenth birthday, she came into town and surprised me.
She would scare easily so cousin Amanda and I would hide and scare her
to get the most perfect reaction.
She loved her pansy flowers.
An ice cream a day is a must.
I would have slumber parties with grandma and I always had her tell stories.
She had great memories.
Tell me a story,
remember what you said.
You promised me,
You said you would
You gotta give in, so I'll be good.
Tell me a story,
remember what you said.
She taught me how to make monkey bread.
She couldn't tell you any of her recipes
It was all a pinch of this and dash of that.
When I needed someone to talk to, she was there
She was my best friend growing up.
I told her my special secrets and she listened and would offer advice when I needed it.
She taught me how to play cards
She taught me that everyone is family.
We have a very complex, confusing family tree
But it didn’t matter to her, if you were blood or not
Come on over and she would talk your ear off and give you a treat
She would hold you and love you
She loved spoiling people
and I hope I can be the same caliber of grandma she was one day.
I'm going to miss that Illinois trip, Grandma.
See you on the other side.
Promise?
~Linz
(Sidenote: I wrote the original post the night of her death-June 22, 2016. The bold parts I added later).
Haas, Virginia Irene (Shippee) “Ginny”
Virginia Irene (Shippee) Haas, known as Ginny to family, age 92, passed away peacefully while surrounded by family on Wednesday, June 22, 2016 in her home in Oakhurst, CA.
Born in Lena, IL on May 25, 1924 to Grover and Orpha (Wiley) Shippee. Virginia spent many years owning local diners and restaurants and later caring for children. She enjoyed cooking, traveling, spending time with family and friends, telling her life stories and spoiling her grandkids. Ginny was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She was the coordinator of LDS lunch bunch, member of the Daughters of the American Revolution, and a member of the Mountain Bear Club.
She is survived by: sons John (Tonya), Gary, James and Robert (Lisa) Haas; step-daughter Kathy (Rodney) Whitfield; sisters Lois Paulsen, Elsie Lobdell, and Orpha Schubert; 15 grandchildren and many great grandchildren. Preceded in death by her parents; brothers Robert & Leon; sisters Ruth Ingram, Sarah “Sue” Phillips, and Gerri Prince.
Some of Virginia’s favorites:
Colors: mint green /yellow/ lavender
Flower: Pansies and Violets
You can tell by the colors and the flower she had sweetness with a dash of spirit.
During her active years she enjoyed traveling:- she loved spur of the moment trips she was always ready and willing to go for a road trip. As long as someone else was driving.
Some of her fondest trips are to Seattle World's Fair, Cruise to Hawaii and Mexico, Wintering in Florida with her sister-in-law, Theresa, trip to England with her granddaughter Trish, Mexico for Gary’s wedding, and a Church history tour across the United States with two of her great friends, Joan and Anne.
Phone:-she loved to talk on the phone!
Family: She loved her family and always spoke fondly of her parents and her siblings, particularly her baby sister Orpha nicknamed “Pookie” who was her “doll”. Virginia spoiled “Pookie” buying her sister her very first bike.
While working as a waitress in Freeport, IL she met Perry and they were married November 18, 1948. Becoming an instant step mother to Kathy and having 4 boys she did everything from curl and twirl hair to Den Mother to cooking meals at all times of day or night. She particularly enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren and having sleepovers and teaching them to cook and play cards, dominoes and other games, and tell them stories of her or their parents childhood.
In 1969 she was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and was very faithful and devoted, she never wanted to miss church. She was a great example for anyone to emulate; failing eyesight, not able to hear well and severe neck pain did not prevent her devotion to her Savior.
Cooking - Virginia could cook anything, everyone when talking about her usually brings up how they loved her great cooking. She worked in many restaurants and cafeterias but owned Several restaurants the first one named the Wooden Shoe, later owning others named The Hillside, Bears Den, V&R Truck Stop and the Beanery
Collections- Some of the collections she had consisted of Salt and Pepper shakers, owls and lighthouses
Places lived: Lena IL, Freeport IL, Rockford IL, Lafayette Oregon, back to Illinois, Mesa Arizona back to Illinois, Boynton Beach Florida, back to Illinois, Pinellas Park Florida, back to Illinois, and finally settling in Oakhurst, CA. As you can see she was not fond of the winters in Illinois, but always returned to be near her family.
She never drove after Robert turned 15 ½ and got his driving permit, she had her very own willing chauffeur.
Virginia gave birth to 4 boys, but so many others called her mother, ma, mom, grandma, Virgie, Papa Ginny, Granny Grunt, MeMa or Grandma Ginny. The list is endless of those who “adopted” her and forever loved her and became her family.
Virginia not only was a great mother but a loving Mother-In-Law. NOW that's not an easy task, even when marriages did not work out she always kept a close relationship with her daughters-in-law, she loved and nurtured unconditionally. A phrase she lived by was “Once you were family you are always family.”
In the words of her sister Elsie “I will always remember Ginny’s life summarized into three categories: Food, Friends, and Family.”
She enjoyed being in the kitchen trying new things and winning the hearts of friends through their appetite.
Anyone she was around would soon be a friend.
Family was always important to her and she would always keep in touch by visiting or calling. When she had her own family she loved everyone of them and would keep us informed of how and what they are doing. She raised a great family.
There is not a child, grandchild or friend that does not think that they are her favorite! That is just the way she made you feel while you spent time with her.
She will be loved and missed by all those who knew her.

















